Happy Pride Month! 50 years ago this June marks the Stonewall Inn riots that are considered the start of the LGBTQ+ rights movement. It’s as a result of that movement that I am allowed to live out and proud in 2019 without the same shame and stigma that my queer elders had to suffer through. Don’t get me wrong–things are far from perfect. Especially if … Continue reading Bad Lesbian
When I was in 6th grade, a classmate was having a big birthday bash to which it seemed everyone was invited. We’ll call her Kayla. It was still summer vacation and I ran into my best friend at the beach. She asked me if I was going to Kayla’s birthday party and I told her I hadn’t received an invitation. “Oh you’re invited!” my friend … Continue reading Invited
In her show “Nanette,” Hannah Gadsby quips that she “knew more facts about unicorns than about lesbians” for a long time. She then has to double-back and clarify for the audience that “there are no facts about unicorns.” It’s a solid joke, one that is all too relatable for queer people. The internet has made an enormous difference in the lives of LGBTQ+ people, that’s … Continue reading Facts about Lesbians
Hell hath no fury like a man ignored. Or so I’ve learned. A couple of week’s ago, my partner and I were visiting her niece and nephews at her brother’s house. Her niece is old enough now that she remembers who I am, but still young enough that she hasn’t figured out that I’m a huge nerd, so I am taking full advantage of that … Continue reading Who Will Save Your Soul?
Straight, curious, and heteroflexible friends, It has come to my attention that we need to have a little chat. Last night I was watching an episode of the ever-delightful Hannah Gadsby’s “Renaissance Woman“–a short YouTube series she did featuring her area of expertise, art history. I noticed there were a lot of comments and being both curious and a masochist, I decided to read them. … Continue reading “I’m not a lesbian, but…”